Just watched this movie alone on HBO. aww.. i know i am kinda slow but it’s such a nice show abt r/s.. like the misconception of how guys treat you badly because they like you? heh.. it’s silly but some times when u r in love or if u r wondering if he’s interested… u do all the weirdest things!! I rem feeling how i’ll ‘lose’ or make him think ‘highly’ of himself if i mk the first move to sms or call.. oh well, i kinda miss that pounding heart feeling… it’s so exciting and mayb sweet at times!
anyhow, the movie reminds me of some r/s tips on TV. I was watching The Tyra Show at gym ysterday. btw, I love watching Tyra show.. haha… it’s juz so nice and informative and gossipy? the talk show was on SCIENTIFIC PROVEN RELATIONSHIP TIPS. Let me note down some of the stuff I can rem here
Scenerio 1: At 11.30 pm, there’s a sms on your guy’s HP. WHat would you do??
(1) Ignore
(2) Confront
(3) Check it!
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The scientifically correct response by the woman shld be (3) Confront. You need to trust your guy and ask him about it
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Scenerio 2: You realised that your guy is watching porn behind your back! What shld you do?
(1) watch with him
(2) turn it off
(3) talk about it
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The scientifically correct response by the woman shld be (3) Talk about it. Maybe he’s not satisfied with the sex he’s having? so discuss with him
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Scenerio 3: He wakes you up at night and want to get it on. You are very tired and don’t feel like it. what shld u do?
(1) Negotiate
(2) Just sleep
(3) Grin and bear
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The scientifically correct response by the woman shld be (1) Negotiate. So do a mutal exchange kinda thing like you have sex with him and he will do the dishes for the week. why? women tend to get exhausted more than men do. Negotiating and sharing the hsework chores in the long term may give the women more energy for sex.
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Scenerio 4: You are out on a date. It’s time to pay the bill. What should you NEVER do?
(1) He pay
(2) She pay
(3) Go dutch
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The scientifically correct response shld be (3) Go dutch. Allow him/her to do something for you – He/she will feel special! Furthemore, in a r/s, you gotta give! So IF he wanna go dutch, then u know, he’s not tt into you!
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haha.. they are still other scenerios but I can’t rem all of them… You might wanna check out this book!! 🙂
