{"id":540,"date":"2009-06-24T18:21:48","date_gmt":"2009-06-25T01:21:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/?p=540"},"modified":"2009-06-24T18:21:48","modified_gmt":"2009-06-25T01:21:48","slug":"stress-it-spreads","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/?p=540","title":{"rendered":"stress.. it spreads"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>These few weeks (until now) are pretty stressful days for BH.. hmm.. he used to work late at the office but after some form of &#8220;hell&#8221; from me &#8211; he had decided to come home on time , do his regular hsehold chores then work thru&#8217; the night&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>well&#8230; he&#8217;s getting kinda short tempered too&#8230; so need to be very tactful and sensitive.<\/p>\n<p>Example 1:<br \/>\nDo not say &#8220;eee&#8230; u got new pimples!&#8221;<br \/>\nSay &#8220;There&#8217;s some new evidence of you becoming younger on your face!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Example 2:<br \/>\nDo not say &#8221; you didn&#8217;t wash the plates properly&#8221;<br \/>\nSay &#8221; you really enjoy my cooking that you wanna leave some leftovers for tml&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>ahem&#8230; frens and family who&#8217;s coming&#8230; u r warned!!! unless u miss the &#8216;angry chicken&#8217; drama&#8230; haha&#8230; :X<\/p>\n<p>I thnk the stress is kinda getting to me too .. like he&#8217;ll wake up every morning and tell me he feels stressed? hmm&#8230; i seriously do not know how to help him \ud83d\ude41 so&#8230;i can only keep my mouth shut and play the supportive role &#8211; &#8220;Don&#8217;t worry, God will help you&#8221; , &#8221; I pray for u.. things will b fine&#8221;. But then again right after the wedding, he doesn&#8217;t even wanna belief in &#8220;God&#8221; anymore&#8230; it&#8217;s sad&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, he&#8217;ll be delightfully happy that Caryn &amp; I will be going for a short getaway next week &#8211; nobody to pester him to come home for dinner b4 the dishes gets cold. I bet he loves to eat microwave food and instant noodles!<\/p>\n<p>When things are ard, you don&#8217;t cherish &#8211; wait till things are gone, then you&#8217;ll feel the loss. ahhh&#8230;this is life&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These few weeks (until now) are pretty stressful days for BH.. hmm.. he used to work late at the office but after some form of &#8220;hell&#8221; from me &#8211; he had decided to come home on time , do his regular hsehold chores then work thru&#8217; the night&#8230; well&#8230; he&#8217;s getting kinda short tempered too&#8230; &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/?p=540\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;stress.. it spreads&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/540"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=540"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/540\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seattletimes.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}